Bila dah besar ni aku kadang2 xde masa nak spend dengan diri sendiri. Aku memang seorang yang kena ada me time sejak kecik so bila ada ongkos and masa aku akan spend dengan...
2. Gi massage
Kat KL ni berlambak pusat mengurut. Klo kaki boleh massage kat mana2 reflexology. Dulu zaman bujang gi urut badan kat bangsar sebab dekat dengan opis, urut kaki dekat bukit bintang yang berderet tmpt urut tu sebab dia bukak sampai malam-malam. Tapi sekarang aku gi urut kat midvalley aje sebab convenient.
2. Baca majalah.
Ini hobby ye, hobi membaca la bukan beli majalah. Rumah aku ada penuh majalah. Kalau x beli senaskah sebulan x sah. Mulai bulan akh nak jadi lebih selektif la beli majalah. Ini tiap2 bulan beli Cleo + Female + Pa & Ma + Dara + Majalah Fotografi (depends pada jenis) waaa x penuh majalah kat rumah. Dah la xde ruang dah rumah ni penuh barang :(
3. Pegi window shop2
Kalau aku balik awal aku angkut anak aku sekali ke shopping mall sementara tunggu abah dia pulang. Tengok cuaca la kalau bright and sunny aku pergi la kalau hujan aku batalkan je ka hasrat itu. Aku suka tengok warna warni, ia bagi kreativiti untuk aku berphotoshop. Kerja aku di office yang utama ialah buat banner promo untuk web so kena banyak tengok design so ada la alasan nak cuci mata kan.
4. Baca majalah kat libary office aku. Kalau tahap nazak bosan terperuk kat opis aku pergi baca majalah kat office aku. Ada banyak majalah boleh baca macam faveret aku National Geographic, Reader's Digest, Her World, Times, Majalah design2 ape tah lupa nama dia, majalah hiburan ada Media hiburan aje. Lain2 Dara, Nur, mingguan wanita, Jelita, Nona dan tak lupa ya buku. Kadangkala aku belek la buku. Lama x baca buku ilmiah apa2 pun. Patut kot amek seketul baca untuk tingkatkan ilmu selain ilmu photoshop dan ilmu jadi ibu.
Itu le antara cara me time aku. Tidur pun kena jaga anak sekarang sebab dia nyusu body. Klo dia x leh tdo and asek kejut aku je setiap 45 minit maka aku gi keje mata panda la. Tiba lunch hour buat photoshop smbl tertido2 maka tido la sejam stret.
Kawan aku sorang dok meroyan kat facebook pasal orang yang block dia.
"everyone who blocks me i know who you are" katanya.
Kalau aku suka hati la aku nak block ko kan. Aku rasa tak selesa bila ko tengok profile page aku, sebab aku rasa tak selesa untuk ko tau isi perut aku.
Anak aku ni tgh belajar berdiri so bila dia duk memapah atas aku, time aku taip 'isi hati' jadi 'isi perut'.
Tapi kawan aku ni memang emosional dulu-dulu zaman belajar. Ada masa tu berdrama apa tah dengan bestie aku si siti tu sebab assignment. Sampai satu tahap bila dia call je aku yang kena jawab henpon siti and tipuan kata siti kat jamban.
Aku block orang ada la dalam 10 macam tu. Ada segelintir tu orang yg aku jumpa kat tempat keje juga tapi aku x suka sikap dorang yg ntahpape, so aku block dorang. Sama macam kalau kita filter kisah hidup kita jika ada orang tanya macam macam. Gitula cara kita filter.
So buat apa la kita bersusah payah nak tau siapa block kita dan feeling lebih2 buat sakit hati. Baik kita enjoy je orang depan mata yang hargai kita.
Macam ni la benda yang kawan fb aku guna untuk tau siapa block dia. Ntah betul ntah tak.
Sekarang ni aku kat komuter stesen shah alam dan tahniah kepada KTM sebab perjalanan hari ini sangat selesa. Ada ketapi baruuu tapi xde gambo sbb segan nak amek. Klo aku amek tadi mcm ganggu peribadi penumpang lain pula. Tapi anakku diambil gambarnya oleh pakcik sebelah tadi. Pakcik tu nampak ok so aku layankan je.
Ye, kisah hari ni ialah aku bawa anak ke office. Drpd pkl 9 pg smpi pkl 5 ptg. Sebabnya masa aku smpi rumah nanny dia ada note 'kak g gi bla bla sbb bla bla sakit'. Duhhh satu family habis kredit agaknya. Bengang aku terus bwk Mikael gi opis. Okla. Aku nak blogging kerap2 tapi interface baru blogger ni dok pehe la. Payah nk dioperasi dr skrin kocik. Maka bykla draft berkepuk2. Mmmmm. Ok see u next time.
Wahh macam tulis email gitew. Esok aku akan berada di Kuala Krai, Kelantan. Pertama sebab sorang best pren yang dikenali semasa keje kawin. Nak juga sebut best pren kategori apa sebab dah meningkat dewasa ni banyak kawan2 dikenali pada setiap peringkat hidup. Yuyue aku kenal masa dia masuk ke Unit Hal Ehwal Semasa Radio tahun 2008 rasanya. Sebelum tu pernah tau pasal dia secara am je sebab ada kawan yang dpt jadi dj di KELANTANfm. Kawan ni ada bercerita perihal dj-dj di sana. Tup2 setahun lepas tu dia dapat tawaran kerja penerbit rancangan permanent kat HES Radio. Masa tu aku dah tak duduk Radio dah, dah berhijrah ke RTM World yang sekarang ni jadi RTM Online pun. Lama-lama selalu keluar lunch sama so jadi rapat.
Masa aku kahwin dia ada, so masa dia kahwin aku berharap sangat ada maka insyaAllah akan ke sana menjelang esok. Lagipun dia upah kami untuk ambil gambar outdoor dia di sana. Aku rasa macam aku akan jadi director of photography je sebab aku bawa anak. Of course la aku akan babywear anak aku kan, cuma x pasti nak wear ke tepi ke atau ke belakang. Selalu aku pakai anak aku macam ini gambar tu je.
Moga-moga Mikael boleh di back carry dan tidur semasa aku ambil gambar dia nanti. Amin.
Here's a from birth to 7 and a half months Mikael updates for you.
FROM BIRTH TO BEYOND
Mikael was born on the 18th of July 2011. He weighed 3.51 kilograms and was 54 cms long. They don't call 54 cms tall eh. He had his first BCG jab at 1-2 days old in the maternity ward. I had my caesarian at 7.51pm and an hour after that wheeled into the maternity ward. That night at 10.00 pm baby Mikael was handed to me for his first taste of mommy's milk. As he was one big baby, I scooped him from the bassinet onto my lap with only one hand. During my first few days with him the only thing I was natural at was breastfeeding. In other parts I was one noob mom huhuuu.
When he was 2 days old Mikael pooped this pile of black poop called meconium containing food he digested while still in the womb. It was midnight and he was crying hysterically. This was my first baby and that was my first time changing nappy BUT I didn't change his nappy that night, the other mother in the ward did... her baby was in the NICU because of some after birth complications so she gladly helped me. That was after the nurse told me to do it myself.
She shouldn't treat me like that, she should have guided me instead of deserting me like that HOH. The least she got is a good reputation from a customer, I was not just a patient or a noob mother who did not know how to change a nappy. She had a good chance of building a good reputation there but she didn't grab her chance. LOL. That's me typing out my vengeance.
Mikael weighed 4.7 kilos and 57cms in length during his one month check up. He had his vaccinations at the Larkin Polyclinic. He was still swaddled at bed time. His skills were crying and smiling. But he smiled on his own terms. He smiled at everything, smiled after having his milk and smiled at the windows during diaper change. But he rarely smiled back at me when I smiled at him.
He had his vaccine jab at a Government clinic in Temerloh because I went to Temerloh on the last day of confinement. The 44th day was also the second day of raya puasa. Temerloh is his grandparents hometown. At the check up he weighed 6.3 kilos, gained about 600 grams and was 60 cms long. The nurse at the clinic tested his vision by attracting him with a chunk of red knitting threads. He eyed and followed the thread bunch when the nurse moved it from right to left. At first he was confused when the nurse told him to follow the thread, he looked at the nurse and smiled. The voice came from the nurse's mouth so he looked at the nurse and smiled. The nurse laughed and jingled the thread ball and only then did he look at the ball. The nurse tested his grip and said clever boy.
His paternal grandpa told me not to let Mikael wear his mittens anymore but he still wore his barut.
Got his jab again. He weighed at 6.8 kgs, half a kilo weight gain and started smiling back at me. I was elated because finally he responded to my smiles. I had also started work and left him at his nanny's house which is only 10 minutes car ride from my office.
At four months he no longer wears his berut. I rarely swaddle him at night time. He was also getting too big for his granny made swaddles so at the nanny's house he was swaddled with kain batik.
At mommmies' forum in Faceb00k, some mommies posted about their babies not turning on their tummies at 3-4 months. Mikael didn't and I was worried but I asked my MIL who's a nurse and she said if baby didn't turn around on their tummies by 9 months only then do I need to worry so I let it be.
When he was five months he actually started rolling over and when he was 5.5 months he could roll on his stomach and roll back from his stomach to back. He was also jabbed twice a week before he turned 6 months. Right and left thighs being poked at, and my baby cried of course.
I started feeding him solid food a week after he turned 6 months. I joined this faceb00k group Solid Food For My Baby and some popular food to introduce baby are pear, apple, banana, pumpkin and porridge. I fed him porridge with yellow egg this one time and he had a very high fever the next day. My February calendar is full of emergency leave LOL. In a way on those days where his temperature rises to 38 degrees celsius and I stayed at home with him, he always gave me this many many surprises like new teeth. He also cut his first tooth at 6 months.
Frankly I don't know how to feed him his porridge. 70 percent of his porridge or mashed food ends up on his clothes rather than inside him. I don't know how to feed a baby, I only know how to breastfeed LOL. Online sources said that for a baby under a year old "food for fun until they're one" so most weekends I just fed him the things I eat and some mashed up fruits. I don't want him to be a fussy feeder so I made an effort to feed him solids at least once a day on my days with him. At the end of the day Rasulullah SAW was feed breast milk until he was two so I offer him a lot of milky time to make sure he gets his nutrients. he weighed 8 kilos now at a fever check up in PPUM.
Mikael can crawl now. Two weeks ago he cried when I left the hall for the kitchen. When I looked back in about 4 minutes he had crawled a good 2 metres towards me while crying. Since yesterday he started crawling to me and puts one hand on my lap and sits on his bended knees. Now I can officially start baby led weaning! no porridges and no mashing up food for him. His second teeth came out at 7 months too.